Thursday, February 09, 2006
The Rant Post
9:13 pm | 
Posted by
Cat |
Why are women so complicated???
And I can safely go on about this because I am one...
A few weeks ago, possibly months, I was having coffee with a male friend. He made some fly-by comment "girls are too complicated...haha" he added nervously "just kidding". But I stood there, soy decaf mocha paused mid-way between table and lips and said...
"you know, you are absolutely right".
That has been confirmed for me this week. Why is it that I can't go on my merry way without a swarm of curious-ones needing to know every detail of every movement of my life? And why is it that my silence means 'something is going on' and stories are created where there are none?? And why oh why oh WHY is it that it is assumed that because someone lives with you they are the one to go to for the gossip when the person in question won't give it???
This is where I adore the simplicity of the male. When they spend time together, they do stuff. They might talk, but D&Ms are optional, and even then they do not have to include finer details. When males co-habitate it is just that. They pass each other in the hall and in the kitchen, but they don't demand to know every detail of your day when you walk in the door.
And HOW is it that females assume they are 'helping' by getting involved in the affairs of others WHEN IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM????? What's more frustrating is when they assume they have that much influence in your life to allow them to do that!
*breathe*
Okay. I think I feel better now.
xxx
And I can safely go on about this because I am one...
A few weeks ago, possibly months, I was having coffee with a male friend. He made some fly-by comment "girls are too complicated...haha" he added nervously "just kidding". But I stood there, soy decaf mocha paused mid-way between table and lips and said...
"you know, you are absolutely right".
That has been confirmed for me this week. Why is it that I can't go on my merry way without a swarm of curious-ones needing to know every detail of every movement of my life? And why is it that my silence means 'something is going on' and stories are created where there are none?? And why oh why oh WHY is it that it is assumed that because someone lives with you they are the one to go to for the gossip when the person in question won't give it???
This is where I adore the simplicity of the male. When they spend time together, they do stuff. They might talk, but D&Ms are optional, and even then they do not have to include finer details. When males co-habitate it is just that. They pass each other in the hall and in the kitchen, but they don't demand to know every detail of your day when you walk in the door.
And HOW is it that females assume they are 'helping' by getting involved in the affairs of others WHEN IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM????? What's more frustrating is when they assume they have that much influence in your life to allow them to do that!
*breathe*
Okay. I think I feel better now.
xxx
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